UK Council for Psychotherapy


Accredited Psychotherapist

British Association for
Counselling & Psychotherapy


Accredited Counsellor

Counselling & Psychotherapy
Central London, Camden, Kings Cross, London NW1
Glen Gibson - Dip. Counselling, MA Psychotherapy, Dip. Psychotherapy
UKCP & mBACP Accredited male Therapist, Counsellor & Psychotherapist 020 7916 1342

Therapy For Men - Mens Issues & Mens Problems

Google by Glen Counselling. What is male menopause? What are male menopause symptoms? What are the most common signs of male menopause? How to cope with male menopause symptoms men? Can Counselling for men offer male menopause treatment? Therapy for men or male therapy, also known as mens therapy or psychotherapy for men can be helpful in solving your men's issues, men's problems, male menopause, fatherhood concerns. A male therapist or male counsellor offers male therapy for mens issues, mens problems and fatherhood. In the counselling for men or male counselling, known also as mens therapy or mens counselling, a male therapist or male counsellor provides mens psychotherapy for men, or psychotherapy men. Please note that I use the terms "therapy for men in London", "counselling for men in London", "counselling in Camden Town", "counselling Kings Cross", "psychotherapy for men in London" as well as "male therapy London", "male counselling London" or male "psychotherapy london" and also "men's therapy london", "men's counselling London" and "men's psychotherapy London" interchangeably. I am trained & accredited as a male counsellor, male psychotherapist & talking therapist for males, dads, fathers and I am happy to discuss with you how to be a father, how to be a dad.
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Therapy For Men's Issues - Male Behaviour Patterns, Men's Problems

  • Some men may turn to unhelpful habits or addictions, struggling to face what we need to face
  • Some men let things get so bad, that they contemplate ending their life - approx 75% of suicides are male
  • Some men struggle to reflect more before acting
  • Many men find it hard to relate, communicate & engage with other men
  • Some men struggle how to fully engage in the world as men, partners or fathers
  • Some men struggle how to be naturally sexual & healthily aggressive, powerful, so we get things done, get what we want
  • Some men only see intimacy - vulnerability or tenderness as a weakness, yet rarely as strength
  • Some men find it hard to be in touch with their needs or express them
  • Missing an emotional connection with our partner
  • Some men can have a passion for ideas & inanimate things, yet can struggle with opening up or being intimate with people
  • Many men report a sort of "archetypal restlessness, grief, loneliness or anger" deep inside

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The chief lesson I have learnt in a long life is that the only way to make a man trustworthy is to trust him;
and the surest way to make him untrustworthy is to distrust him and show your distrust.
Henry L. Stimson

Therapy For Men's Issues, Men's Problems

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We all need our sword and shield at times, alongside armour to protect us, to loosen it, lay it down at other times, yet at the same time be emotionally connected, emotionally intelligent (without having to necessarily emasculate ourselves) and the counselling can support us in this. We learn about masculinity and connect from the energy of other men, what other men do and how they are, individually & collectively. As the Ryder cup captain Jose Olazabal eloquently put it "All men die, but not all men live. And you have made me feel alive again..." Being a man presents its own challenges or conflicts:

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Why am I soft in the middle
The rest of my life is so hard
Paul Simon

Therapy For Men's Issues - Relating, Communicating, Interacting Some of us men don't find it easy to relate or communicate with other men or women. We may have internalised things, put up a barrier - necessary & important for protection at times (though not always helpful), yet at the same time hide behind things, e.g. technology, or always feel compelled to convey we are more confident, important than we are. For some the pressure to be perceived as always capable, trying to be the strong one, be a provider, can be too much. We may have an unhealthy work-life balance. Other aspects of us may have been overlooked. We may have moods, yet not know why. We may become dissatisfied, miserable, irritable, grumpy, aggressive in ways we would rather not. We may become emotionally avoidant, struggle with small talk, the nuances of communication, especially in our relationship, where our partner finds it difficult to reach us or we them, as if we just must "get on with it". We may struggle to let people in. We may find it difficult to relax, be playful, as we interact. Some of us may be stuck in our head - living in a binary world, cut things off, finding it hard to open up or be comfortable in our own skin or body, struggling to keep up or relate with our partner or others. We may have become reliant on our partner to "do the emotional stuff" relate with others. We may also want to be more comfortable with not only having our own space, but also being "present" with what we feel & how to express our feelings, without withholding or attacking. It can be as if we need to give ourselves permission to do this. You may be seeking a male therapist to explore these mens issues.

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Carrying The World On Our Shoulders Sometimes the burden of what it means to be a man can feel lonely at times, too much, as if we are carrying the world on our shoulders and we always have to "get on with it", as if there is no alternative (maybe believing it's weak if we can't solve all our problems or talk about things). Soldering on, martyr-like, we may struggle to connect with other men, the world around us, our being as well as our doing (we may also struggle with the balance between not just talking about things and taking action). The counselling can explore the nature of any of our rigid, fixed beliefs, what burdens we carry, whether we are willing to lighten them (see also Lightheartedness, Playfulness, Carefreeness, Laughter, Fun, Pleasure & Our Sense Of Humour), let them go.

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Work, Achieving, Providing We may get a lot from the rewards of our work, enjoying achieving things, being a good provider, enjoying life's adventures, pleasures. We may be very task-oriented, got to do this, got to do that, pushing our mind to tasks - pushing ourselves, yet for some this may be at the cost of being in the moment, in touch with our own trust & inner life, which isn't work-related. Spear in hand, which is necessary at times, we may be striving so hard, it can be as if we have to always prove things, gain wealth to provide, be respected. Some of us may have a strong externally based sense of worth, at the cost of our own intrinsic sense of worth. Using work to numb our emotions, we may struggle to pick up our spear and lay it down when we need to, relax, be at ease, have some peace of mind, connected to our purpose, base our esteem on who we are. (See also Work-Life Balance, Workaholism, Addicted To Work, Work Addiction)

Oh, I was just a boy
Giving it all away...
Roger Daltrey

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Therapy For Men's Issues - Male Therapist, Male Counsellor You may be seeking a male psychotherapist, or specific relationship counselling or marriage counselling for men (e.g. stereotypes of certain commitment concerns, intimacy issues, struggling with empathy, not crying, which can render us lonely). You may be seeking different structures in your life - ones that work for you or have very specific men's problems or concerns:

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Sexuality, Sex Problems We may lack confidence, have anxiety about our sexual performance, have a certain sex problem, seek a healthier sex life or certain expectations, attitudes, beliefs & thoughts which get in the way. There may be underlying considerations in our relationship. We may struggle to be fully engaged, close & intimate, emotionally connect, be present with our masculine sexual energy. How to respond to our drives, urges, impulses, passion, desire, aspirations, fantasies & imagination may be challenging. Our level of pornography use may have become a problem. There may be psychological influences affecting us as a sexual man. (See Sexual Difficulties)

And, when we say that man is responsible for himself, we do not mean that he is responsible only for his own individuality, but that he is responsible for all men. Jean-Paul Sartre

Therapy For Men's Issues - Men & Power Some of us may feel lost, stuck, drifting. We may have lost our focus. What being powerless, impotent, empowered, powerful & potent, being in our own authority, robust, taking a stand when we need to, assertive, healthily aggressive - getting out into the world, getting what we want means to us & what it means to be a complete man can be explored in the male counselling or therapy for men. Whether we use personal power to control others, to have power over them, how competitive we are, whether we want power at all costs, including loving relationships, any wounds we have from our own father, can be explored in the therapy for men, alongside our relationship to our own potency, sexual potency. How to be powerful & loving may be challenging for some, and the male therapy or counselling for men can be a space to look into this further.

Where love rules, there is no will to power, and where power predominates, love is lacking.
The one is the shadow of the other.
Carl Jung

Therapy For Men's Issues - Male Menopause There is still much debate whether or not male menopause exists. Male menopause can be seen as a slowing down of men's functions, affecting male libido, mood swings, depression in men. Men's lifestyle factors also play a part. Male menopause has often been spoken about in terms of physical symptoms, yet male menopause may also be linked with existential despair, male midlife crisis or existential angst, struggling to respond with the depths of suffering & love, starting an affair.

Only a man who has felt ultimate despair is capable of feeling ultimate bliss. Alexandre Dumas

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Therapy For Men's Issues - Becoming A Father Some of us may want to have children, be a father, parent, yet for others we may be very ambivalent about this (see also Being A Parent, Mutual Parenting). Some may have fertility, infertility, sexual concerns or have a partner, who has had a pregnancy termination, which affects us. Being a father, especially for the first time, can bring up a lot of powerful responses, feelings, thoughts we have, yet may find difficult to talk about. Not only can being a father be so rewarding, it can also be a lonely & confusing time. The birth of our child, and what this means, can bring strong reactions & emotions in some men. When we first hear the news of the pregnancy, we may feel proud, happy, burdened, overwhelmed, or experience contradictory emotions. Having a child can be a proud, joyful & fulfilling experience for some men, who never look back. Yet other men may struggle with fatherhood, be challenged with their new role & responsibility as a father, and what this means to them now as a man, partner, husband. And how to be a dad or a father may be a concern. Struggling to find our new place, role, we may feel shut out. Fatherhood and how do we find the "father in us" may be a challenge. We may have always wanted to be a father, never wanted to be a father, or hold ambivalent feelings about being a father, towards our child or partner. Thoughts about lost freedom & how to embrace our new responsibility may swirl around (see also Whether Or Not To Have Children). Male counselling or therapy for men can be a place where you can talk about fatherhood what it means to be a father.

When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child:
but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
C.S.Lewis in Shadowlands referring to the bible, 1 Corinthians 13:11

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Therapy For Men's Issues - Adjusting To Our Role As A Father We may focus on physical, maybe financial security, yet overlook our nurturing role. Our partner may have been used to carrying a baby for 9 months and may have already formed a bond or attachment, and it may take us a period of adjustment towards adapting to becoming a father, bonding with our child and this new arrangement. We may see the mother of our new child being intimate with them, having little time to be intimate with us. Despite our age or maturity some of us may feel pushed out, struggling to cope and adjust with our new role as a father. Maintaining intimacy and being sexual again as a couple may have been put on the back burner. Our partner and our relationship may have changed and we may struggle to adapt & adjust to these new circumstances and our new role & responsibilities as a father (some instead of talking about this, immerse themselves more into work). Fatherhood for us can have its own reactions. We may feel under pressure, very confused, alone or isolated. We may have powerful, complex, contradictory, unexpected feelings, thoughts & reactions as a man & father, and these can be aired in the therapy for men. The therapy can also be a space to talk about fatherhood, what it means to be a father, our relationship with our own father, if we wish. Some of us may grieve what was with our partner or life, is no longer. In this new phase of our relationship or marriage we may struggle to embrace and adapt to the changes in our relationship or marriage. Viewing & valuing our partner both as a sexual woman & as a mother (same sex couples may have similar concerns) and how we respond to a sex life, which may be different, may be a concern. Exploring fatherhood, what this transition means for you, a male therapist can support you in this new phase of your life, relationship or marriage.

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Psychotherapy Men I am an experienced male therapist, working with men & a range of mens issues you bring. The male therapy or counselling for men & men's therapy can offer an opportunity to ruminate over what concerns you.

A boy needs a father; in order to love himself as a man, he needs the love of a man. John Bradshaw

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